The 3 Most Frightening Words You’ll Ever Hear

I happen to know the 3 most frightening words you’ll ever hear!

If you were to guess … what do you thing they are?

Hmm … any ideas?!

I Love You … Nope!

I Hate You … Nope!

I Trust You … Nope!

Words are profoundly powerful and can evoke a plethora of emotions. The 3 word phrases above can cause some anxiety, no doubt!

However, in my line of work, I find there are 3 words that are the most frightening. In fact, in most cases they evoke pure panic!

“Go Do It!” 

You may know what you want and what to do to get it.

You may have time, energy, passion and opportunity to get it but when those words come up …

Pure panic ensues! 

Confusion sets in as a defense against the fear of failure that’s lurking under the surface.

All of the sudden, your too busy, too overwhelmed, too exhausted, too distracted … too something … too anything! 

When this happens the truth is revealed that you are a “comfort addict”!  Even if your life is uncomfortable, you’re comfortable being uncomfortable … a “comfort addict”!

You’re stuck!

You, my friend, are exactly where you’re suppose to be because you created the reality you’re living in!  No one else … you, and you alone, created this mess you’re in!

Or the flip, you’ve created a pretty kick ass life! If this is you, congrats!!!

Either way … you’ve created your current reality.

Every little choice you’ve made has lead up to where you are today.

I know this well because, truth be told, I’ve been stuck for a very long time.  Hiding behind my computer and “building a business” that is made up of facebook friends, twitter followers and virtual meet ‘n greets.  I’m not even close to where I thought I’d be at this point in my business.

I’ve been stuck because of the choices I’ve made.  I’ve had my own panic and fear to deal with! It’s not easy to leave a J.O.B. and go solo to follow my dream.

The truth is, we can choose excuses or we can choose experiences.  Which choice will you make?

If you’re placing blame on why your life isn’t what you want it to be, then you’re rationalizing away your responsibility here.

Let’s be honest, this is all motivated by fear.

Fear of  … failure, fear, rejection, looking silly, being judged, (fill in the blank)!

My lack of progress in my business is based solely on my fear of,  well, probably all of those!

I can bet top dollar that you are sitting in fear on some level in your life.

Fear is a huge distraction and saboteur! It will keep you stuck forever if you let it.

Wanna get rid of the excuses and move into experiences?  Start asking yourself this one question.

What is more important? 

If you have project your working on but your favorite show is on t.v. – what choice will you make? What will bring you closer to meeting your goals?

Don’t choose which is more appealing in the moment. Look at the bigger picture and decide what’s more important.

Make your excuses, inexcusable and create experiences that are unbelievable!

Big Hugs,