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In this episode, Kate Holt talks about having two failed marriages and the real struggle she had getting divorced the second time. She talks about how her fear of abandonment played a roll in trying to desperately hold on to the second marriage, saying to herself ‘this has to work’! She talks about the fighting, the tension, the make-ups and break-ups.
She shares with us the pain she endured as she began to accept that her marriage was coming to an end. Through out her process she realizes that her marriage became a big part of her identity. She identified more of ‘being a wife’ than being Kate herself. She exposes her underbelly as she talks about this divorce leading to the image she had of herself being totally shattered.
As a result of getting divorced she had to embark on a journey of self-exploration. She talks about discovering limiting beliefs that were holding her hostage, preventing her from realizing just how amazing she really is.
She talks about the level of self-responsibility she had to assume – being full responsible for her beliefs, thoughts, feelings, actions and consequences she had to endure. As her self-discovery process unfolded, she was able to fall in love with herself, embracing all of who she is without judgement, contempt, guilt or shame. Kate shifts from having a fear of abandonment to falling in love with herself … and life!
How to Make a Big Shift in Your Life
Look at your relationship honestly, even if it’s painful. Then make decision from there. Get support if you need it. Know you don’t have to go through it alone. And remember that each relationship has it’s own timeline so honor your process and don’t rush through it.
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Who’s Kate Holt?
Kate Holt RN, CCEP is the executive director of the Institute of Core Energetics, a speaker, trainer, and coach. As the owner of Holt Mentoring and Education Services, she works with transformation-industry entrepreneurs who want to make a profitable impact. Kate is passionate about helping people find the depth they long for in relationships, and to live their innate greatness out loud. She uses cutting-edge body-based technology, love, and humor, combined with her knack for zeroing in on what needs to shift next so they can build greater intimacy and make a bigger impact while maintaining their integrity.
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